Failed surgical abortion mumsnet symptoms Following a heavy period of bleeding of bright fresh blood, the tissue went down to 2. You will honestly be fine don't worry 🌺 Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. 50, where again I was met by a team of 3 female theatre staff - the surgeon and two nurses, again supportive and put your fears at ease. Or Email address Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Oh wow sorry to hear that ! Have all your other pregnancy symptoms gone though ? I suppose if it’s very faint it must still be the hormones waring off. Bleeding continued, symptoms remained (although not so bad) & pregnancy test still positive. You wanted an abortion because you knew you weren't ready, nothings changed in that respect. If I hadn't had that I probably would've been ok afterwards. I was 8/9 weeks when i had the abortion, i went for an appointment to discuss my options etc, and booked medical abortion. I went to the first appt with an open mind but deep down I knew, I think, it was the right decision. I found that the surgical gave me much better closure and was easier to recover from as it was done and dusted very quickly, unlike the medical one. Ramping and bleeding for up to 3 days afterwards. I sadly had to take tablets to induce a missed miscarriage on Tuesday this week, have passed some clots, and am bleeding like a (light) normal period, but have really not had any pain to speak of, except for some I haven't got long to make my decision as the cut off for abortion is 23 weeks and 6 days (I will be 23 weeks 4 days when I have my appointment) so time is of the essence. 5 weeks ago . If you have medical concerns, please consult a healthcare professional. The proper term for a m/c is spontaneous abortion, the only difference is that yours won't be spontaneous. It’s so important to do this as others such as myself find it helpful. The guilt I felt taking the tablets makes me worry how I will cope next week. I don't like his character while he can't keep secrets and his way of getting angry is by exploding and telling everyone what is happening. PP covered the cost of my surgical procedure because of my first, failed abortion. K. I just started bleeding and passing clots today after experiencing very little the day of Join pregnancy choices and discuss everything related to terminations and surgical & medical abortions. Ive had no issues conceiving, if anything i seem to be super fertile. I am writing this post to help anyone searching for honest experiences. Children are wonderful yes, but bloody hard work, time consuming and expensive. Not to scare you OP but I had a failed medical abortion that didn’t take effect for two weeks. Hi I don't think I've ever added a thread, but I did search the archives when I was making my decision, so thought I'd add my experience to help anyon I had a abortion 3 weeks ago today, I'm booked in for a surgical abortion in 10 days. Abortion pills I had a surgical abortion 8 years ago. The treatment itself was fine I had a bad reaction to the conscious sedation when coming round . Hey guys. I have taken the pregnancy test that was in the kit and attached is a photo of the results. Managed to speak with a GP over the phone. Skip to main content Failed Abortion- Continued pregnancy after finding out. Pregnancy symptoms after Medical abortion food aversions. Next day barely any blood, now just under 48hrs later no blood. I was wondering if anyone else has had a failed abortion and gone on to have the baby? I agree. There was a thread on here not long ago and her termination failed meaning she had to repeat it - but surgical as she was further along. So I went to my medical abortion appointment on the 5th July. Following a failed medical abortion, I also had a failed surgical abortion it seems with 4cm of RPOC left in my uterus. It's felt like forever and really difficult mentally and physically So we've decided in the end to have a surgical abortion. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis again in this pregnancy and knew i wouldnt be able to cope so i believe i made the right choice. After much debate, we decided a surgical abortion was the best thing to do for our situation. I am now 13 weeks pregnant. I hope it goes well To cut a long story short I agreed I would have an abortion as I know how hard it can be as a single parent. Join Mumsnet Log In Active Watching Add post I'm on Search Get involved. If you're still really concerned contact your GP. The fact you're getting a scan is great. Pregnancy symptoms can take some time to completely go away after an abortion. I know now that coils shouldn't be fitted at the same time as terminations because they I found out very late that I was pregnant (15w, failed contraception) I knew that I couldn't cope with another; DP knew he couldn't cope with another. But at the early stages of pregnancy when taking abortion pills is an option, it’s Every woman is different and of course tolerate pain in a different way. The fact you bled so heavily with big clots makes me think it’s very unlikely it didn’t work. I had my surgery about 5 days ago and was sedated. in 2019, in a hospital that offers abortion services. Looking back though my pain threshold was not what it is now (been through labours now) and I just didn’t know what to expect. It's a strange sensation, one I've never felt before, almost like a sharp tug, which last a few seconds at a My pill abortion failed and see this post . Had a scan today and it shows the abortion failed, the baby is still alive! And I'm 13 weeks. After this happened I still had sickness but my boobs are not sore anymore. Search Active discussions Mumsnet Logo. I still haven't had my period and me and my partner are trying to get pregnant again, we had been trying 2 days after the abortion. I Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Skip to search Skip to talk navigation Advertisement Sign up Search Dears please help me. Going through it Skip to main content Skip to main Failure rate very very I had an incomplete abortion and are currently waiting on a surgical abortion now. All symptoms have gone but now this has thrown me! Many thanks in advance. Due to a medical condition I can’t have a medical abortion, only surgical. Hello I had a surgical abortion at under 7 weeks, I also have a tiled pelvis and had the mirena fitted in. . You might have seen some of my previous posts I have had a failed surgical abortion. I didn't have any sedation, and only had local anaesthetic as an injection into my cervix. It was not a decision I took lightly, and I have made peace with the decision I’ve made at this time in my life. Clinic said that if GA she'd have had to stay in London overnight. I have a personal medical termination horror story and would always recommend surgical, but mine were under general (one late missed miscarriage and my first of two terminations before they'd sterilise me). I am still having the cravings for orange juice and mandarins that I had before. It could also be residual hormones or retained tissue. They're more likely to be phantom movements and not an actual baby movements. Please don't judge! The description may be a little gruesome and graphic so look away now. I had the mirena fitted after a surgical termination & I had very similar symptoms (odd discharge, pain etc) and had an infection. This worried me but Marie stopes said this was normal, anyway I went on holiday and still felt sick, could not really drink and was drawn to sweet treats and ice cream! I get panicked and I try to terminate my baby but my abortion is failed and I get clots and bleeding but not that much I took one oral and two in vagina tablet name is breeky eni how I have some very personal reason so I don’t want to continue right now but when I went to Dr she checked me very well I don’t tell her that I took pill but when my BHCG was 17000 and Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. I think if it's less than 5mn (sorry unsure exactly) then they can give you the tablets again or wait for your period. Hi I had a surgical abortion done on Saturday 4th feb at 14 weeks & 4 days and I'm in agony with my stomach, the surgeon said everything went well and I felt fine for the day of the procedure then it's just been nothing but crippling pain wonder if I had two missed miscarriages with surgical treatment and I had a negative two weeks post surgery. Warm baths, lavender spray, easy-to-digest/prepare food, a friend or two on standby. Pregnancy test still positive after 2 weeks. Private messages My feed My lists Premium Dark mode Off Today I had a surgical abortion with only local anaesthetic only at 6+4. So I am all booked in to have a surgical abortion in the morning, and to tell the truth I am petrified. Has anyone had to d Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Skip to search Skip to talk navigation Advertisement Mumsnet Logo. Everyone has their opinions about abortion and right now I don't think I can take much more guilt. But I really regretted it and I feel I can’t make my mind up to continue or not for reasons due to abnormalities. 5cm but the bleeding continued and it was not going away. So I’ve recently had a surgical abortion I was 12 weeks and 3 days I’ve been bleeding for a week and 2 days I very much regret my choice and decision, and for the people who have had surgical abortion and tried to get pregnant straight after I was wondering how long it had taken to conceive again? I have been ttc for 15 months now with no luck despite falling pregnant twice in the past whilst on the pill, and it seems my surgery caused enough damage to make me infertile. As @Maray1967 says, the rest of the procedure if you had to go to hospital with an incomplete miscarriage is the same. I answered lots medical questions and discussed options. The idea of opting for this sort of abortion rather than medical abortion is that with medical abortion it can lead to heavy. I’m 16weeks now and she said the earliest appointment for the surgical is in 4 weeks time but it’s not been booked as got to have my scan tomorrow then they will book in so wait might be even longer. That felt like a relief and that my HCG was lowering in the way it should after a successful abortion. I still feel pregnant. However it has failed. It is now a week later, I am still bleeding but not that heavily and have period type pains. I also started my adhd meds in the last 3 weeks and have been abit away with the fairy’s me and my boyfriend stupidly had sex using the pull out method after week 2 I can’t remember when exactly but I assumed all would be ok as I was still slightly bleeding! I agree Psipsina -- I had an infection after a surgical abortion, had exactly the same symptoms (sharp pains, heavy bleeding a couple of days after the procedure) and was in hospital for five days on IV antibiotics. So sorry you're going through this. This relationship was not able to make my forget my . It was emotionally very hard for me and I'm trying to move on but I can't forget about it because I have some horrible physical symptoms that I am constantly aware of. I was uncertain about whether to have my abortion, and so waited a few weeks, so I knew I was making the right decision for me. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention. Hope it goes well OP whatever happens. I was 8 weeks and due to a pre existing medical condition I was only allowed the surgical option under local anaesthetic. After describing my symptoms he diagnosed me with a uterine infection following the surgery 😣. I hope everything works out the way 11 weeks pregnant, spotting and stomach ache. Join in Search Notifications I have no medical experience, I’ve just been through a medical abortion which I completed yesterday and I had to take mine 48 hours apart. I was booked in for a surgical procedure a second attempt but backed out last minute so I know I'm going to have this baby I feel so guilty for doing what I did I just want to know if there is any other mums been in this situation before as the people I've tried to speak about it with have never heard of a failed abortion. Mental health being the main issue. Hi @sarahb19 I had a surgical abortion a week ago today. If you have prolonged bleeding, too much bleeding (much more than a regular menstrual period), pain in your belly that does not go away after a few days of taking the I have decided to get a medical abortion. Those of you who have gone through surgical awake, you're very brave and strong. I’ve been in hospital one night and they said they would do the surgery on me this morning. I’m one of the unlucky ones. I am due to take first pill today and I’m extremely scared. It may be that if it's that quick, I will just go with that. Skip to main content Skip to main navigation I had a surgical abortion a week and a half ago at 10 weeks. I had an surgical abortion 6weeks+3days ago for personal reasons. I am worried about side effects like vomiting etc but also about serious side defects like toxic shock syndrome and sepsis. Please someone help me. 2 weeks and had abortion 3. I brought her home by train. One I had a surgical abortion at about 6 weeks - it was about as early as they were willing to do a surgical one. I’ve just been told that all the doctors available won’t perform the procedure due to religion. I had a medical abortion 13 days ago The decision was mentally hard enough. My surgical abortion was scheduled one week later, now at nearly 11 weeks. If you have the surgery you could say someone’s collecting you after or arrange a taxi? Please discuss this with the staff and see what options you have. Nearly 3/4 were 8 week or less pregnancies (dating from last monthly period), 20% were 6 weeks or less. My head and heart are completely divided on what to do. The pregnancy has ended, no fetus will develop, but your body has only expelled part of the tissue and products of the pregnancy. I had a surgical abortion initially so was never told to do a test at 3 weeks as they're meant to be almost certain everything was removed, Finally how long have others had to wait between a consultation and a surgical abortion? This pregnancy wasn’t planned and I’m devastated I’m in this position but don’t feel that continuing the pregnancy out of guilt is a good enough reason so I’m wanting to terminate it as soon as I can before I become more emotionally invested and before the embryo grows any Hi I’ve had a surgical abortion today . Surely the surgeon must have known when he failed to remove the pregnancy! An 11 week old fetus and placenta would have been very recognisable! Is it possible that you I had a medical abortion 4 weeks ago which I found out today has failed. My DS is 8 so there would be little common ground between him and the baby. After taking all my vitals, I was put in a waiting room with two other girls undergoing the same procedure - all of which were the same as me, anxious and unsure of what to expect. I honestly don’t know what to do. Hello. Really, really, seek medical advice urgently. I googled yesterday and decided either my body is in denial and its phantom symptoms OR I'm one of rare cases surgical abortion has failed. Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Failed contraception, and I stupidly didn’t take the morning after pill as I wasn’t meant to ovulate either. I am by accident pregnant almost 11 weeks in a relationship 5 month long. I'm currently 14+2. Both were fine but quite different processes. I figured I was pregnant 2 weeks after my period was due and honestly I thought my period was just late until I began getting signs of pregnancy. They advised the HCG levels would drop to normal after 2-3 weeks and if I still had a positive test I had to return to EPU. Some of my pregnancy symptoms disappeared straight away like the nausea whilst others are still here. It will be easier if you can conveniently start your 'miscarriage' and be admitted to hospital while you and he I had opted for a surgical abortion under general anaesthetic . Quote Thanks Add post Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, Was told to just retake the pills, I asked about antibiotics incase of infection and was told I didn’t have any symptoms so they wouldn’t prescribe (this was 5 weeks after I had taken them originally). I just feel like I am pregnant although symptoms are so much like period symptoms I don’t know if I’ve got into my own head. I did a clear blue 2 days ago that was negative. Does it take longer with a medical. I've had two abortions - one medical at 6 weeks (the pill, one at the clinic and one at home) and another surgical abortion at around 8 weeks under light sedation. I was fasted for 18 hours before surgery, I had a medical abortion on the 26th Feb this year. I took the pills again but this time had no bleeding or cramps and worried it had failed I called NUPAS again. Sorry for the ramble, I guess I’m asking, if you had an abortion, when did you get your first period after? Someone asked us: How can I tell if my abortion pill worked? Is there a way to know if your abortion worked or not? Abortion is extremely effective. This morning I took my low sensitivity test that the doctor provided, exactly 2 weeks after the abortion and it came back I had a medical abortion which was started on the roll at around 12 but br the time it got to doing it I was somewhere between there and 16 weeks. With it being a medical abortion I doubt you'd even be feeling any kind of movements as it would be way too early for that. I honestly was worried it failed, I didn't have pain To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. Join considering a termination and they were very clear that if the medical abortion failed then surgical was the only route available as the pregnancy would be severely compromised by having taken the medication. The nurse said it was fairly common as pregnancy hormones can stick around for longer in some people. i need advice asap hopefully today as tomorrow I have my pre op for surgical abortion,, so I have a 23 year old son and a 71/2 month old ,, I’m currently pregnant about 7 week 8 days after th Medical abortion I took another Digital clear blue test and it now said that I was 1-2weeks pregnant. The second I opted for surgery straight away and 6 weeks later I still had some retained tissue. To preface this, I was booked for the procedure with sedation, but unfortunately when in clinic I could only have the local. I you go down the surgical route, you have to wait until you are atleast 7 or 8 weeks pregnant. Sorry for your loss. Good luck OP. I had a surgical abortion 15 years ago and when I woke up all symptoms were gone. I just feel no one will give us any answers, staff at hospital have not experienced this before and we don't know what to do. It was a contraceptive failure, and DH is waiting for a vasectomy so we had certainly completed our family. Something feels 'off'. I found taking the tablets a really horrible experience so I’m really scared Hello I’ve chosen to go ahead with an abortion , this is not the right time for me to have another child . Like at the minute that seems worse than the actual procedure. I had no pain and didn’t bleed much at all, I even worried for a couple of months that it hadn’t been done! I didn’t see the scan, they turned the screen away. the more cases I hear about where its failed. Hoping to be going home the same night. I had a failed medical abortion at about 6 weeks, I thought it had worked my symptoms had gone ect, I took the HCG test two weeks later and positive so called the clinic and went back two weeks later for a scan and confirmed I was still pregnant and was measuring at I called the clinic they put me in an appointment in 3 days. I’m really struggling I must of only been a week and a half pregnant as I’m now 5. I had a medical abortion 4 weeks ago which I found out today has failed. Did you have any specific questions? Happy to share my experiences if I found out I was pregnant, exactly a week ago - my period's often super temperamental and I'd waited for 2 weeks before taking the test! My boyfriend Well, it is a miscarriage. I was seen at BPAS who were all fantastic and cannot fault them. Hi all so I came to decision to have an abortion it was difficult but I have 4 beautiful kids already and I am in too much pain to care for another one. I had a medical termination 3 weeks 4 days ago, i was 5 weeks. I recently went through an abortion and want to record my experience for other girls who might be going through the same thing - I struggled to find m Skip to main content Skip to main navigation A surgical abortion has been suggested many a time since I first found out I was still pregnant. If I could do this all again (or if I was ever in this position again) I'd go straight for the surgical option Hi all and Rosie. I went for a private scan yesterday and the fetus is growing with a very strong heartbeat and my bleeding has basically come to a Failed medical abortion 10 replies Workingmumto5 I am now almost 12weeks pregnant with twins and booked in for a surgical on Monday next week. He convinced me to go through with it, which in hindsight was absolutely the right decision but but did fuck with my head for a good few years. A friend had surgical abortion and was only sedated. One line means termination successful two lines mean it's failed. I know I was told, if I chosen medical abortion, once I had taken the first pills then the abortion had begun. This is the first pill used in the medical abortion. They have booked me for a scan first. This was my biggest fear as I read up before hand that infection following surgical abortion can leave scar tissue / narrowed tubes and affect future fertility. You sound like you're afraid of the unknown with the surgical abortion, rather than actually wanting this pregnancy. Am I pregnant? it can be normal for the body to take a while to realise you are no longer pregnant and for your hormone levels Learn how to confirm if your abortion was successful. I have an appointment booked with the hospital next week for the pre-assessment and the 1st appointment to prepare for the surgical abortion. Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Am now almost 12 weeks pregnant with twins and booked in for a surgical abortion on Monday. X. If the abortion is failed or incomplete, there are two options: another surgery or an abortion pill. If anyone has experience of similar please could you advise whether this sounds normal or if I should be getting worried. It was really traumatic for her. Has anyone had any experiences of getting pregnant so soon after a abortion or is it most likley i will get my period first. To recognize symptoms of retained pregnancy tissue after an abortion, women can rely on the following signs: Prolonged Vaginal Bleeding Typically, after an abortion, women will experience vaginal bleeding for about 5-7 days (in some cases, up to 10 days), depending on individual factors. I got a womb infection unfortunately which felt like horrendous period pain and flu like symptoms. The fact you're There are many women in your position who have had a failed abortion. Ended up having the surgery and I felt nothing. Get support and advice from a caring community. A surgical when i was 15 (17 years ago) a medical when i was 16 and another surgical two weeks ago. Log in to Mumsnet and join the conversation Log in Register Continue with Facebook Continue with Google Continue with Apple. OP posts: OP? Many years ago I had a surgical abortion at around 13 weeks, and physical recovery was quick. But I just wanted to say ring the helpline and explain your bleeding wasn’t heavy enough (I also still had morning sickness) and get referred for a scan. Places wait weeks to get back to you just to say they don't receive funding for surgical abortion (which is required after 10 weeks) or their nearest clinic is in Bolton I'm from London. I had a surgical termination at 14 weeks after a failed medical (the pill one you take before 9 weeks). I know how unlikely it is for abortion to fail but There are a couple of things making me wonder if it actually worked. Just wanted to post and say I feel your frustration. I have been going back and forth about terminating I know my mental health is not great to go through a pregnancy and bring a child into the world right now but feel so awful about getting a termination. I had a medical abortion (pills by post) just over 3 weeks ago. I am stuck. PIP: A study of 65,045 abortions performed in 5 freestanding surgical units over 100 months time found 46 cases of incomplete abortion. All that is showing is a yolk sack no heart beat . In-clinic abortions work more than 99 out of 100 times. I had gone off with a man more than twice my age. I know the answer let your heart decide but I just don't know what my heart wants. failed medical abortion mumsnet Those and every other scenario played in my head for the next week. Boy was I wrong. Hi, so I thought I would post on here to get some advice. 2. By the time I have that I will be 9 weeks and been waiting 5 weeks. Incomplete abortion is more harmful than complete abortion, as it can have severe aftereffects. How is a Failed Abortion Treated? To diagnose a failed abortion, a doctor will do an ultrasound to look for products of conception in the uterus. Bled very heavily 4 weeks after and had positive pregnancy test. So I was booked In for a day procedure. There were about 5-6 other girls there at this point. And originally baby's father was going to help out, he has now made it clear he won't. Whereas with a surgical abortion once it's done it's all done. Has anyone experienced a failed medical termination and continued and gone full term and delivered a healthy baby? Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. But I know I cant handle another childfeel like it would be really unfair on the one I have at the moment as well as the future baby if For my medical abortion (age 19) I was in extreme pain with very heavy bleeding, eventually admitted to a&e and then passed everything the next night whilst on a ward. I know some are 24 hours apart but my only advice would be to follow the guidelines you were given. I went for a medical abortion and took the tablets at just over 8 weeks. Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Hi all, I found out I was pregnant June 19th, which put me at exactly 4 weeks. I was called into surgery at 10. 6 days later I was allowed home after 4 hours of surgery to repair my womb. I fell pregnant using contraception, my son is 2 and my daughter was 5 months when I fell pregnant and not long over 6 months when I had the abortion. I hope you're good today. I have 2 young children and the day after I was able to go out as a family to see Father Christmas and the day after that I was caring for my 2 on my own as my husband was at work. Skip to main content Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. I had a surgical abortion when I was 17. Play today's Numberfit. 30 Pregnancy symptoms after abortion 1 I started with a mild fever after posting this. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I'm booked in for a surgical abortion under GA to Some people are worried their medication abortion didn’t work because they’re expecting to see more blood, tissue, or large clumps to come out. I’m so scared of the general Anesthesic. The nurse said if I were to continue with the pregnancy there's a higher risk of the child having abnormalities eg limb formation and brain development. I have seen the GP who is going to refer me. so i have unfortunately had to have three abortions. My 2 options are to have an MVP under local anaesthetics next Thursday or wait until the 12th of May for a general. I thought I wanted to go down the medical route so that it could be over soo It's been a month and half after I've had the op for the abortion i was 11 weeks gone, near enough 12 and had the marina coil put in straight after. I can honestly say I had no indication of ever having one after the procedure, I even remember wondering whether they'd even done it Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. I’ve had a very faint positive test and I just don’t want to have to wait to start the process. But yesterday I had an abortion a choice that wasnt made lightly Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Skip to search Skip to talk navigation Advertisement Search Active discussions Sign up Search Notifications Private I can't help on the practical side as I had a surgical abortion at a fairly similar time. The % of failed medical abortions is tiny (something like 1 in 100) and they would usually have no/minimal bleeding. The specific treatment depends on how far along you are, and other factors. I was in the actual room for only about 5-10 mins. I really can't abort a 13 week old fetus, it's just too far along now. I’ve read some posts on here about failed abortions but I don’t see how they can miss a surgical one ? yes coming on mumsnet has helped me soooo much I can’t even tell you . i had my daughter at 19 and she is now 13 years old. Had a scan yesterday which showed some retained products - not sure how much but she said it wasn’t terrible! I’m booked in for surgery next week with a scan first incase it has changed. To comment on this thread you need to So I did the abortion at home not last Saturday the Saturday before it failed nothing happened then ended up in hospital with suspected eptopic as they couldn't see baby on scan then had to go back a week later to see baby on scan as they didn't read my notes saying I was an abortion case and I had to actually tell the nurse when she was trying to book me in for So it's two weeks since I took my medical abortion pills. The provider should provide you with lots of information. They still went ahead with the medical abortion and i haemorrhaged 2 weeks later after retaining product . The first was a failed medical management where I needed surgery. Afternoon all, I’m 3 week post medical abortion and would have been 10 weeks by now. UnMN hugs Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly Currently 10weeks pregnant and cannot mentally undergo a medical abortion. I remember nothing but have been experiencing the worst back and lower abdomen pressure and the pain is only when on my feet. XX I chose surgical abortion as I wanted everything done and over the same day. It has come as a massive shock as we were using condoms and my husband i I am just 4 weeks pregnant. Internal scan reveals what they think is a foetal heart beat still in there. Then bled lightly for about ten days. I know it feels like the baby survived against all the odds, but that doesn't mean the baby is still healthy. I had one medically managed miscarriage and one surgical. I was told to do a pregnancy test 3 weeks after and it came back positive - had blood t I contacted them with an online form and received a phonecall back the next day. I decided to opt for a surgical abortion rather than having to go through a medical abortion at home, I suffer with very painful periods so was advised the surgical option would probably suit me best. Obviously I've been told that the termination failed and I have an appointment to go back on 28th April to have a surgical termination. Or Email address An incomplete abortion is an abortion that has only been partially successful. I had tried to push for surgical but I wasn’t able to however I was 10 weeks when I had mine, I think it depends where your located as reading posts it seems different areas have different requirements for surgical. I am financially strapped. I was in pieces the weeks before the abortion, I was ashamed, Terrified and completely torn in my decision. I have an appointment tomorrow at the hospital for my scan etc and to talk through abortion options (medical/ surgical) I’ve had 3 weeks to think about this now and ideally I’d like the surgical abortion (just to add I’ve had this before when I was young. I’m confused. I'm booked in for a surgical abortion under GA tomorrow. I don't even know where to post this and I'm all so new. This in the U. Skip to main content Skip to main navigation I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks, I was unsure what to do but the dad didn't want the baby so I deceided have an abortion it was the hardest thing I have ever done, I was 8 weeks, I had a surgical op, two weeks later I still tested positive so I rang an they said it was just left over hormone effecting the test, four weeks later I was still getting strong symptoms and I thought I’d post in here after reading other people’s experiences with surgical abortions as they helped me loads with anxiety and information around surgical abortions. Discover signs of pregnancy after abortion, follow-up options, and when to seek medical advice. I went to clinic today as I had a medical abortion at 8+4 and I was still testing positive. On the morning of my procedure, I arrived at the clinic at 9am. Here 's a good list of resources for you during your time of waiting. I obviously just want to get the procedure over with but having read a few people’s stories of MVPs I’m really scared of it being a scarring experience. Get well soon Hi @Chocolate93, you're welcome - always helpful to hear from others with similar experiences. Hope everything goes well for you and that you get the answer you want. Signs And Symptoms of Incomplete Abortion . I had to have surgical management which is the exact same procedure, just under a different name. Has anyone been in a similar situation please? Please help. I was 4 +2 when I took first pill, it failed so today I am 6+6 I'm 7 weeks tomorrow, i will be 7+3 getting surgical, my scan was exact to my dates, I knew I was still pregnant knew by symptoms, boobs, sickness smell I still had it all, der was no way it was left overs in my uterus it was defiantly pregnancy I wasnt offered a second treatment of It may not be GA. Had to walk across a bit of London to get to station, and she was a bit out of it and I felt like a body guard ensuring she didn't get bumped into. I know my date of conception and have tested very early as was having pregnancy symptoms. I filled in a form about my medical history then waited to be called. On my leaflet it said to take the test two weeks after taking the first pill which is what I've done. I am now almost 12weeks pregnant with twins and booked in for a surgical on Monday next week. If you have an Myself had a surgical abortion roughly 2 months ago! The symptoms have already started and they're a bit harder to tolerate knowing what the outcome will be. Please get checked out. Signs of an Unsuccessful Abortion. I feel sick and nauseous as ever just as before, breasts still bigger and sore. I decided to go with medical abortion as access to surgical is very much so limited to due Covid. I had read horrible stories about medical abortions and I knew it wasn't for me. Luckily it came out in my first period so I didn't need another surgery. Although my fiance and I do want kids far in the future Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. The signs and symptoms of an incomplete abortion can vary depending on how far along the pregnancy was and how much fetal tissue remains in The test 3 week after abortion confirmed its success. Not quite the same, but I had 2 MMC (My first and 3rd pregnancies). I saw someone said that to have the surgical abortion, you should be over 9 weeks so they may not allow me to at this stage. Anyone else still Took tablets 2 weeks ago for a medical abortion and long story short they didn’t work. (5 weeks now). Before that, your only option is the medical ( pill ) option. Places readily offer the pills 10 weeks and under but after that date is has been so HARD to get help with a surgical abortion. Skip to main content Skip to main navigation I’m currently 7 weeks pregnant with a very unexpected and unplanned 3rd baby. Skip to main content Skip to main navigation I had an abortion 5th jan 2022 surgical, an now the grieve is getting worse the baby would have being due in 3weeks and I can’t help but feel sick to think of what I done I’m devastated, I’m in a loving relationship with 2 kids an at the time I was panicking because my last child was only 14months when had abortion an we as a couple just thought it wasn’t the time msi surgical abortion 11 replies rosekate203 · 20/06/2023 11:16 Hi all, Found out I was Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) I had an abortion several years ago which was very painful, totally out of it, sweating, contractions, the lot. BP and puls Skip to content. Still very thirsty all the time. The clinic I went to have advised me not to keep the baby but I can't help feeling that it's fate. I actually opted for a medical abortion, which failed and now I'm waiting for a surgical one. She's just turned 12. Thousands of women have surgical abortions every year and it’s such a small percentage that end up with damage to their uterus etc. I am still pregnant and booked in for a surgical procedure next week. Once the pills are taken it was strongly advised to continue on as not finishing the pills could be harmful to your health and the health of the fetus. My daughter is 6 months old and the fath Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Skip to search Skip to talk navigation Advertisement Sign up Search hi, I had a medical abortion 4 weeks and 1 day ago. I am going for a surgical abortion on Monday and I have to take the Mifepristone pill 24 hours before (tomorrow) before the procedure to soften my cervix. I have had 4 miscarriages 1 live birth who is now 2, I don't want anymore but the pill had failed, so abortion is the only route to go down, I'm 11 weeks and only reason it's taken this long is I had a big bleed few weeks ago and thought I had miscarriaged, can you tell me your experiences of the surgery I'm planning on being awake Hi Everyone, I just wanted some advice and hoping some of you can ease my mind. So I am going away in 2 weeks and I was really hoping to get a surgical abortion but I’ve realised that there is no way that I would be able to have a consultation To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. Among the successfully completed abortions 44% were 8 weeks or less and 6% were less than 6 weeks. I was absolutely terrified beforehand but it was fine. I also got pregnant again immediately afterwards without having a period. The health advisor was lovely Hi 👋🏼 I had a medical abortion yesterday due to Hypermemsis and knowing I couldn’t go through 9montgs of it again. Skip to main content Skip to main navigation I had an abortion recently (already have one DS 12mo) and am at college. Thank you, I just feel like they’re trying to make me get a surgical abortion as the pills failed but from my point of view they’ve failed for a reason. Just be prepared for any outcome. I’m worried I can’t sleep but i’m overthinking as if they made a mistake You might have seen some of my previous posts I have had a failed surgical abortion. Is it true I can’t get a surgical on the NHS in I bled a week about 1 day of heavy and the rest was moderate to light/spotting. Thank you for this post, I’ve found out I’m unexpectedly pregnant I currently have an 8 month old and I’m suffering from ppd. It may be retained products which can lead to infection. I think you need to go back and have a scan. Hello, i had a medical abortion at 8 weeks through bpas, I passed some large clots and bled for a few days so thought everything had gone as it should, I did the pregnancy test that they sent 3 weeks later which turned out positive, contacted bpas and went to a clinic for an assessment, they told me I was still pregnant and now 14 weeks I couldn’t believe it. I had a surgical abortion a month ago and have never felt so low and so suicidal in my entire life. bmev xov tjgqqjr ncocbc cqgte izgl mmvr gfokhr abhrd aconr